I really shouldn’t respond to this but I’m waiting for food and have a spare minute so HERE GOES.
The concept of a ‘gold-star lesbian’ (one who has never slept with a man) is incredibly harmful to those lesbians out there, like me, who spent most of their life confused and had to figure themselves out and now get told that they’re not a perfect A+++ 10/10 gold-star lesbian because they once had boyfriends. That’s bulldonkey. They’re lesbians, that’s it. There is absolutely no reason for this to be an issue or ever brought up, it doesn’t matter what people did or didn’t do in their past, it’s only how they identify in the here and now that matters. Lesbians are no less of a lesbian for having been with a man, a gay man would be no less gay if he had previously been with a lady, bisexuals are still bisexual even if they don’t have an exact 50/50 split of men and women in previous relationships, and transgender men/women are still men/women regardless of how they presented in previous years of their life.
There should be no contest in this community, the LGBT community strives for equality so why can’t we all just be equal?
MY FOOD IS BURNING NOW BYE
who the heck asks questions like this wtf